Character Traits

Lately, I've been thinking about the kids similarities and differences. And that got me to think about the root of their differences, their main character traits.

Inara is confident. There is nothing she thinks she can't do! She can run, talk, sing, dance, jump off tall objects, play with things that pinch her fingers, etc. When she wants to try something, she wants you to leave her to do it herself. She is so independent when she is playing or working on something! And tough too! She is the toughest so far of all the kids.

Lex is decisive. When he decides something, he is not easily swayed. Sometimes this is helpful, sometimes it is not. Strong-willed, determined, resolute, bold, these words all describe Lex. He might decide he wants to do something himself, and another time he decides he must have help even if it is something he knows how to do.

All character traits have strengths and weaknesses. I hope Justin and I will be able to nurture the positive aspects of their character, not the negative aspects. It seems more natural to me to tell them what not to do (negative aspects) instead of helping show them what they should be doing (positive aspects). How to teach Inara to build her confidence into conviction, and Lex to make wise decisions. It's a big job!